On Tue, Nov 9, 2010 at 2:45 PM, sharadov <sreddy at spark.net> wrote:
> how do i check if the son daemons are running?
>

They're just unix processes. Look for them.  If you don't know how to
do that, just turn off your computers and go home as this is well
beyond your experience.

Your replication has fallen behind by 20 days.  At this point I'd say
it would be faster to drop it all and recreate from scratch.